tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37914658.post589826321973090860..comments2024-01-21T13:44:43.896+00:00Comments on Womb Twin Survivors: The effects of a bad parent on the child - an argumentUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37914658.post-80302804073166213622011-08-04T15:52:39.254+01:002011-08-04T15:52:39.254+01:00We do not make your children - you are a highly se...We do not make your children - you are a highly sensitive and strong person, aware of your own woundedness, only part of which is to do with your parents, for your woundedness was there in you before you entered this world. <br /><br />I am not sure that paedophiles and murderers are in fact created by bad parenting - there is no research study that I have been able to find that backs this up, but maybe you have more information? I'd be very interested. Paedophiles and murderers are certainly narcissistic, which is certainly a pre-birth effect, not created by any style of parenting. narcissistic children are very difficult to parent but their parents didn't make them that way. It pleases them to blame their parents rather than take personal responsibilty for their actions. <br />An interesting discussion - see what you think of the next few posts, which will be on the same topic!Altheanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37914658.post-38943844323190400942011-08-04T15:41:48.154+01:002011-08-04T15:41:48.154+01:00Althea, I am a wombtwin survivor, and a tremendous...Althea, I am a wombtwin survivor, and a tremendous amount of dealing with that has shaped my life, but it certainly didn't help that my parents, particularly my mother, were angry and vindictive. My father was very upset that I was born a girl, and didn't hesitate to tell me that. My mother was constantly hitting me and screaming at me that I was never good enough. So I have to agree that parenting styles have an enormous affect. I find it interesting that the people who genuinely tried their best to be good parents have guilt over what they may or may not have done, while the truly horrible people have no guilt whatsoever, while they churned out pedophiles, murderers, etc. I definitely blame poor parenting a million times more than any problems caused by being a wombtwin survivor.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com