At least one room in my home, including a shed or garage, is completely full of stuff.
Now I am at a loss as to how being a womb twin survivor may make you a hoarder of stuff. So one of the questions asks the rspondents to hazard a guess as to the reasons why they hold on to stuff.
Here are some of these remarks:
I feel like holding onto my things keeps me safe. Since I lost my twin, I don't want to lose anything else. I'm in control of my clutter. I may not be able to control anything else in my life, but I can control MY stuff -- what I do with it, where I put it, how I use it, and what I keep.
When I'm out at a place like Goodwill or some place like, that I feel like I'm leaving something behind if I leave with nothing or part of something but not the other.
I feel as though these items are an important part of my personal history. I feel as though one day I might want to reflect back on my life by looking through the items. When I start going through them they remind me of people and events in the past, and I like that feeling. If I lose them, I am losing part of my past.
One of the reasons I keep so many books and papers is maybe to do with my search for reading about others' struggles. I think it helps me to feel not alone, in my life's striving to feel I am a whole and a happy person. The self help books and spiritual books are a way out - searching for a freedom from insecurity and the fear of abandonment that has shown itself so often over the past 7 years.
My womb was a mess and so I don't feel uncomfortable when it is messy. I don't clutter, but don't tidy up often. I live in a one room apartment. When I had more space, I always kept at least one room clean for visitors. Now it's cramped and always somewhat messy, though I know exactly where everything is. Ah, yes, I don't like cleaning, because then I have to deal with the filth and because my twin was in my sac and deteriorated and it was filthy, I wanted nothing to do with the filth, so I don't want anything to do with it now and try to avoid handling it by cleaning as much as I can. Hope it helps, though I am not a clutterer.
Another interesting result of this survey so far is that the room most likely to be very cluttered is the respondent's bedroom or study. The personal space.
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Do you have any view on why womb twin survivors are likely to be hoarders?