One of the statements on an earlier version of the questionnaire was " I find goodbyes difficult." This is because many womb twin survivors were mentioning this and I wondered how common the feeling is. It appears to be a common feeling, in that the end of something - a relationship, a college course, a life - is hard to endure because it is a little bit too close to the Dream of the womb.
(Note: This statement is not on the questionnaire now, simply because I had to limit the number of questions to the ones that had been found the most common in the previous versions.)
When a twin is miscarried and leaves the womb entirely, this is a real abandonment for the sole survivor, and all other endings feel the same.