When a man is over weight, he has soft contours, a rounded stomach and his muscles are not visible. He seems to be feminised.
If he loses weight he then reclaims his male energy and his masculine, muscular frame is now visible. He is now fully male.
You would think that the journey to reclaim your own natural masculinity would be an easy one, but it is not. I suggest that the high oestrogen male has extra oestrogens because he is a womb twin survivor who once had a sister and the connected placentas allowed the transfer of oestrogen into his body. The oestrogen is part of him but does not naturally belong to him. It was given by his sister.
To let go of the extra weight that is the physical manifestation of that female energy (the only residue of his lost twin in fact) is very painful and hard: see this video for a glimpse into that pain....
When a twin dies before birth, the sole survivor needs help and understanding. Womb twin survivors are the sole survivors of a twin or multiple pregnancy. This group, 1 in 10 of the population, includes survivors of a stillbirth, miscarriage, abortion and a "vanishing twin" pregnancy. It is a story of a twin bond broken by death, leaving a lonely survivor.
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Thursday, June 23, 2011
Saturday, April 23, 2011
The twin within (6) Opposite gender energy
Some womb twin survivors carry physical signs of their lost twin in the form of ambiguous genitalia or secondary sexual characteristics of the opposite sex. In other cases is almost impossible to tell what gender some individuals are, as if they are an evenly-mixed amalgam of both sexes.
For example here is an extract from The Healing Path ebook:
FEMALE ENERGY TURNED MALE
There are a variety of ways in which some women (possibly including you) express their female energy in a male kind of way.
The harridan
A woman can quietly dominate and control with absolute firmness, but with too much male energy she will deliver you a lecture if you step out of line. She will shout and harangue you until you are silenced and ashamed.
The shrew
A woman is naturally very good at confronting other people with the truth about themselves for their own sake, but with too much male energy the truth is used to scold and criticise, to belittle the other person and establish dominance over them.
The whore
A woman is always aware of her sexuality, but with too much male energy she may make it much more overt, abuse it and take it to extremes. She may become very active sexually and dominate her partner in an exploitative way, even resorting to bondage, whipping and black leather.
The house proud
A woman is naturally able to focus on small details in order to maintain a household or care for children, but with too much male energy this ability can be take to extremes and used as a form of display. competitiveness and control of other people. The house proud woman is a travesty of a good housewife, because her home, far from being a haven of rest and hospitality, is a public display of her abilities as a housewife. She shows it off much as a man may flex his muscles or preen himself.
The madam
A woman will receive attention if she is attractive as a person, but with too much male energy she will show off, throw tantrums and refuse to comply with any suggestions. This childish behaviour can persist beyond childhood. This behaviour obviously sabotages any chance of her receiving the positive attention she craves, but then that’s a womb twin survivor for you!
Tomorrow I'll update you in the Womb Twin kids project....
Wednesday, February 09, 2011
The new book Ch.10: Bodily evidence of a womb twin
Perhaps it is not possible for you to find out any information about your mother’s pregnancy. Perhaps there was no sign, that she is aware of, that your mother was at some stage carrying twins when she was pregnant with you. Yet this idea of womb twin survivors resonates strongly with you and you wish there was some clue, however vague and uncertain, that may substantiate your deep sense of truth about the idea. This chapter will set out for consideration some of the more compelling associations with twinning, which by extension could concern the sole survivors of twin or multiple conceptions. These clues are to be found in your body and in the way it is made.
Gender
There appears to be a huge advantage in being a female foetus. Most conjoined twins are females, which suggests that the conjoined males do not manage to survive. Of the people with evidence of their twin who completed the Womb Twin Research Project questionnaire, 80% are female.
The fragile male
We may assume that there is as much chance of a male being conceived as a female. So, as we find an excess of females among womb twin survivors, it is probably the fact that male foetuses do not manage to survive that makes the difference. Male babies are also more likely to be born prematurely, with all the concomitant risks, some of which are fatal. According to one report, the male embryo is more vulnerable than the female, even at conception. From this point on, the prognosis is not good. With gentle humour, one doctor has hinted that maleness itself could be considered a “genetic disorder.”
The fragility of the male continues throughout life. Men live less long than women and are more likely to die of a stroke. The loss of male foetuses has been hard to understand. Various studies and reports have been published to attempt to explain why the number of males being born varies so much over time and across continents. The study of womb twin survivors suggests that, when it comes to sharing finite limited resources, the battle of the sexes can occur in the womb as much as in born life.
Women need less food
It is known that females manage on less food than males require. If you are a woman who has ever tried a slimming diet, then you will know that men are allowed more calories, even if they weigh the same as you. Even in times of famine and shortage of food, the women are able to carry babies to term and breast-feed them while maintaining their health and strength on a minimal diet. Men do not seem to be made in quite the same way as women. It has been so from the very beginning of life.
Male foetuses develop faster than female foetuses and this can be a major disadvantage in a marginal twin pregnancy. If you are a female DZ womb twin survivor who once had a male twin, then it could be that you both shared a plentiful supply of nutrients at the start but your twin brother grew faster than you. In those first critical weeks he took the lion’s share. Meanwhile, you had to make do and adapt to getting less food. It would not be long before your faster-growing, nutrient-needy twin would find available food supplies insufficient for survival. Where the nutrient supply is marginal, it is the twin who can manage on less food who will survive and that might have been you.
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Gender
There appears to be a huge advantage in being a female foetus. Most conjoined twins are females, which suggests that the conjoined males do not manage to survive. Of the people with evidence of their twin who completed the Womb Twin Research Project questionnaire, 80% are female.
The fragile male
We may assume that there is as much chance of a male being conceived as a female. So, as we find an excess of females among womb twin survivors, it is probably the fact that male foetuses do not manage to survive that makes the difference. Male babies are also more likely to be born prematurely, with all the concomitant risks, some of which are fatal. According to one report, the male embryo is more vulnerable than the female, even at conception. From this point on, the prognosis is not good. With gentle humour, one doctor has hinted that maleness itself could be considered a “genetic disorder.”
The fragility of the male continues throughout life. Men live less long than women and are more likely to die of a stroke. The loss of male foetuses has been hard to understand. Various studies and reports have been published to attempt to explain why the number of males being born varies so much over time and across continents. The study of womb twin survivors suggests that, when it comes to sharing finite limited resources, the battle of the sexes can occur in the womb as much as in born life.
Women need less food
It is known that females manage on less food than males require. If you are a woman who has ever tried a slimming diet, then you will know that men are allowed more calories, even if they weigh the same as you. Even in times of famine and shortage of food, the women are able to carry babies to term and breast-feed them while maintaining their health and strength on a minimal diet. Men do not seem to be made in quite the same way as women. It has been so from the very beginning of life.
Male foetuses develop faster than female foetuses and this can be a major disadvantage in a marginal twin pregnancy. If you are a female DZ womb twin survivor who once had a male twin, then it could be that you both shared a plentiful supply of nutrients at the start but your twin brother grew faster than you. In those first critical weeks he took the lion’s share. Meanwhile, you had to make do and adapt to getting less food. It would not be long before your faster-growing, nutrient-needy twin would find available food supplies insufficient for survival. Where the nutrient supply is marginal, it is the twin who can manage on less food who will survive and that might have been you.
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