Hoarding - a disorder of attachment?

MY MOTHERS GARDEN

In the suburban setting of a quiet tree-lined street in Granada Hills, California we see a 61 year old woman pushing a grocery cart to her front door. We watch her climb through a window covered in ivy and cob webs into her house, stepping on top of stacks of newspapers, piles of debris, rotting material, clothing, and toys; a living mass of waste that has literally pushed her out of the house and into her garden.

My Mother’s Garden is the story of Eugenia Lester whose hoarding disorder has entered a dangerous and life threatening stage. Directed by her daughter Cynthia, it documents how one family comes together to cope with their mother’s disorder and rebuild a lost sense of family. My Mother’s Garden was an official selection of the 2006 New York IFP Market and was a finalist for the IFP Socially Conscious Documentary Award. The film has also received support from the 2007 New York State Council For the Arts and the 2007 Pacific Pioneer Fund.

Director’s statement:

My personal journey through this documentary was necessary to heal the wounds of abandonment, isolation, and dependency that are often present when raised by a parent with a persistent mental illness. Though my brothers and I are now adults, we all feel a deep need for a stabilizing center for our family, a permanent place to call home. This longing for stability has caused disorder in our lives, both socially and emotionally. Through this documentary, I am applying my experience in social work, art therapy, and filmmaking to my own family. I hope that the film can be therapeutic as well as a creative work of art that will help bring awareness to the issue of mental illness and also reach others who are sympathetic to this subject matter. Cynthia Lester Director

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The family got her out of the house for eight weeks and they cleared it out for her. She fell into bed and into despair. "Everythings gone" she said, mourning her stuff.

It is becoming clear that hoarding is an attachment disorder, but only in the sense that the stuff stands in for something ( or maybe Someone ) else. A house filled with clutter is a mausoleum to the dead. The task of the clutterer is to hold on - never let go.

Wombtwin survivors hoard, we know that. Are hoarders wombtwin survivors? We should be asking that question, because if they are, we can help.