I am trying to find some kind of clue to why so many (over half) of the womb twin survivors who complete the Womb Twin questionnaire say a strong "Agree" to the statement: " There is at least one room in my home, including a shed or garage, that is completely full of stuff."
We have the new hoarding questionnaire (see link at top of this page) and that is helping.
So far, the clues are:
SPACE: there are conflicted issues here, about clearing space but quickly filling it up again.
ENERGY: a lot of energy wasted in NOT clearing, and a lot of energy needed to clear.
WILLINGNESS: it seems like a fabulous thing to be clean clear and tidy but somehow there is sabotage, as if deep down the hoarder is not willing to clear it and let it go.
HOLDING ON: things with am emotional connection. An attachment to thungs as if they have feelings of their own.
Now I have to see what pre-birth experience may trigger this behaviour.
Comments welcomed
When a twin dies before birth, the sole survivor needs help and understanding. Womb twin survivors are the sole survivors of a twin or multiple pregnancy. This group, 1 in 10 of the population, includes survivors of a stillbirth, miscarriage, abortion and a "vanishing twin" pregnancy. It is a story of a twin bond broken by death, leaving a lonely survivor.
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